Establishing Rules and an Interesting Change
7/10/2023
Today will be my 11th day without an orgasm. I feel it. I’ve been thinking and believe I need rules to follow while I’m in chastity. I hope MKH approves:
- He will not whine or beg to have his cage unlocked
- He will not complain about discomfort or pain unless severe
- He will always immediately put on his cage when told
- He will never orgasm without your permission
- He will never let anyone near his penis or cage unless you have instructed it
- No being disrespectful or rude to you, your friends or family
- No swearing or raising his voice to you
- He will consider your needs as important as his own
- He will not lie or deceive you in any way
- He will always give you his full attention when you talk to him. No being distracted, checking his phone, turning back to the TV, etc. Full attention on you.
- He will do what you tell him to without argument and will not forget to do something you have requested of him
- He will address you with your preferred title (mistress, madam, dear, etc)
- He will control his sexual energy and will not try to smother you with extra attention
- He will make the bed daily
- He will do the dishes and clean all tables and countertops daily
- All trash will be taken out when full with a new bag put in place
- He will clean the Master bedroom and bath every week
7/13/2023
MKH left my key this morning unhidden; I wasn’t even tempted. I’ve gotten very used to having my cock caged and frankly, enjoy it quite a bit…but not just in the way one might think. I don’t seek to escape my cage. I want to wait and build up the tension. I love the way it feels when just kissing or even touching feels orgasmic. It also gives me some security in a weird way. I love being able to focus my energy and direct it towards the amazing woman I married. I also love being able to save all of my cum and orgasms (all.of.it) for her when she’s ready. I don’t think I’ll ever want to give this up.
7/22/23
It’s been 48 days since we started this experiment and seven days since my last orgasm. I think enforced chastity has been more or less positive. I think we find ourselves feeling closer and more connected. At this point, I don’t see any reason to change things. I like being caged; I like that MKH holds the key, and we have our little rituals. I do miss being able to relieve myself at will, but I love when we have sex, no matter what kind, more now that I have to wait to have an orgasm. I also love being able to enjoy the moment with no attachment to an orgasm.
I have noticed a phenomenon that I’m not sure what it is. When I pee (especially while caged), I’ll start to get an all-over body sensation like chills going through my body, like the orgasms I’d have when Lany would massage my prostate while stroking/sucking my cock. At least once, some precum dribbled out with the pee. But I wouldn’t call it an ejaculation, interesting and kinda cool.
